This is the story of Marie, a woman with "learning difficulties" who lives in Belgium. It is told by Marie and her advocate, Griet. In 2002, Marie was told she had to have a sterilization. This is the story of what happened: The professionals told Marie and her mother the operation was essential. Marie did not know what the operation was because the professionals did not explain what it meant nor did they talk through this difficult issue with her. She discussed it with Griet; Marie did not want it because it was not necessary. They agreed to refuse it. They conclude that sterilization has to be a choice made by the woman concerned and not forced on someone because they are labelled as having "learning difficulties".