This study reports on a research project which took place in a mainstream primary school with a small specialist resource provision for autistic children. The study aimed to elicit the voice of eleven autistic pupils on their perspectives of what an autistic friendly primary school should be like. This is important, as all children have the right to express their views and engage in decisions which affect them. A specifically devised approach, the three houses, was used in group and individual interviews as a way of engaging the meaningful participation of the pupils in order to elicit their views of the school. The pupils had perspectives in common and were, overall, positive about their school experience. Three keys theme emerged: understand me (I may be tricking you); help me to understand (myself and others) and hide support for me (or I won't use it). The pupils were able to identify adjustments which would lead to a more positive school experience. These adjustments may help to alleviate feelings of anxiety which the pupils were working hard to hide. Adjustments requested by the pupils may be beneficial to all pupils in the school and would certainly not be detrimental to them.