ERIC Number: EJ1460677
Record Type: Journal
Publication Date: 2025
Pages: 14
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ISSN: ISSN-0162-3257
EISSN: EISSN-1573-3432
Available Date: 2023-12-08
"Their Happiness, Not Neurotypical Success": Autistic Adults Reflect on the Parenting of Autistic Children
Jia Ying Sarah Lee1; Koa Whittingham1; Rebecca Olson2; Amy E. Mitchell3,4,5
Journal of Autism and Developmental Disorders, v55 n1 p339-352 2025
Purpose: Parenting has implications for psychosocial adjustment well into adulthood. While much is known about the parenting behaviors that influence adjustment in autistic children, little is known about how the effects of parenting persist in autistic adults. Further, autistic adults' perspectives on how they were parented have not been investigated to date. This study aimed to examine autistic adults' perspectives on their experiences of being parented in childhood and the advice they would like to offer to parents of autistic children in the context of their lived experience. Methods: Ninety-six Australian autistic adults responded to open-ended questions in a larger survey assessing childhood experiences of being parented, adult attachment, psychological flexibility, and adult adjustment. Results: A total of 10 themes were identified. Autistic adults emphasized the importance of embracing early diagnosis and that the goal of parents should be their child's happiness rather than "neurotypical" success. They highlighted the importance of unconditional love and understanding of their autistic child, recognizing that autistic children have similar fundamental needs as other children. Participants discussed the importance of structure and predictability in the home to feelings of safety. Parents were encouraged to meet them halfway. Finally, autistic adults reflected on the role of parents in advocacy and parental well-being. Parental neurodivergence was discussed as a possible bane or boon. Conclusions: Autistic adults emphasized the importance of unconditional acceptance from their parents, with the goal being their child's happiness. Findings from this study will inform future programs for families of autistic children.
Descriptors: Child Rearing, Parenting Styles, Autism Spectrum Disorders, Children, Experience, Attachment Behavior, Attitudes, Parent Responsibility, Adjustment (to Environment), Foreign Countries
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Publication Type: Journal Articles; Reports - Research
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Language: English
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Identifiers - Location: Australia
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Author Affiliations: 1The University of Queensland, Queensland Cerebral Palsy and Rehabilitation Research Centre, UQ Child Health Research Centre, Brisbane, Australia; 2The University of Queensland, School of Social Science, Brisbane, Australia; 3The University of Queensland, School of Nursing, Midwifery and Social Work, Brisbane, Australia; 4Griffith University, Griffith Centre for Mental Health, Brisbane, Australia; 5The University of Queensland, Parenting and Family Support Centre, Brisbane, Australia