Given the onslaught of COVID-19, the University of Minnesota suspended in-person instruction, forcing instructors to engage multiple forms of distance learning. This essay describes how two graduate instructors in social studies teacher education shifted their pedagogical focus from one course's content to the ways in which their students would experience their online instruction. The instructors' overarching goal was to model for their pre-service teachers what they hoped would be the pedagogical imperatives in those pre-service teachers' future classrooms: the centering of humanity, the ability to balance grace with high expectations, and the willingness to reflect and learn on their own.