In this article, we address the question: How do educators of the deaf and hard-of-hearing (EODs) perceive their role vis-a-vis communication modality and educational philosophy of deaf and hard-of-hearing (D/HH) children? Using an ethnographic framework, we report on findings from semi-structured interviews conducted with 16 EODs across public, private, and state levels in California. Through thematic analysis of interview transcripts, we found that EODs have strongly adopted a perspective of supporting informed parent choice. Building on a relational sociology framework, we discuss how these efforts are impacted by ableism, which permeates the network of interdependent social relations and systems that constitute the larger D/HH field. In highlighting the socially structured and produced nature of the decision-making process for parents of D/HH children (Bourdieu, P. 1977. "Outline of a theory of practice. Cambridge University Press"), we argue that to support informed parent choice more effectively, the entire system of relations would need to reflect on the way in which ableism and audism are pervasive throughout the system.