Written specifically for teens who have been abused, this volume helps to clarify experiences and indicates appropriate actions. It provides written, visual, and relaxation exercises that teens can use individually along with therapy or group counseling. Part 1, "The Beginning," includes: (1) "Self, Safety, and Support"; (2) "Effects of Being Sexually Abused"; (3) "From Ages 12 to 21"; (4) "From the Cosbys to the Bundys (and Everything in Between)"; (5) "Growing up in a Dysfunctional Family"; (6) "Sexual Abuse in the Family"; (7) "Sexual Abuse by Someone Outside the Family"; (8) "About Abusers"; (9) "Sexuality and Sexual Abuse." Topics in Part 2, "Healing," include: (10) "From Surviving to Thriving"; (11) "Remembering and Sharing the Story of Your Abuse"; (12) "To Tell or Not To Tell: Breaking the Silence about Sexual Abuse"; (13) "Developing Self-Esteem"; (14) "Developing Healthy Relationships"; (15) "Confronting Your Offender"; (16) "Should I Forgive?" (17) "Having Fun"; (18) "Different Therapies"; (19) "For Your Parents." A list of hotlines and information telephone numbers is appended as well as recommended readings for teens and for parents. (EMK)